What happens when twins become distant? It happens. We have our own friends and sometimes get preoccupied. There is still a connection but it can be lonely. I am sure this happens to any sibling or friends. So keep in mind that it will pass. As much as I miss my sister she is totally getting new friends and having fun. I don’t want to ruin that but I do nudge her by calling and trying to get together. I get ignored or she never calls me back. I love her but sometimes I want to wring her neck.